I was the least assertive person I knew.
Fig. 07: portrait, 2026.
Twelve years ago I was homeless. I grew up around addiction, in what I have called a ‘white trash fairy tale’. I was conditioned to keep my head down and be grateful for whatever was offered.
My wife is the one who pointed out that gratitude and silence are not the same thing.
My own first negotiation cemented this thesis: $12/hour to $120,000 salary in one move, simply by asking a recruiter what they had in mind, rather than naming a number from my limited perception of value at the time.
This is where I discovered that the outcome is only predetermined if you believe it to be.
Since then, I’ve made it my mission to challenge limiting mindsets and the idea that people’s worth, outcomes and trajectories are predetermined by their background or societal expectations.
These days I’ve shaped over $1.25 billion in outcomes, negotiating and advising within some of the most consequential boardrooms in the world: Fortune 500 boards, executives, Hollywood talent, all while maintaining my firm belief that compensation strategy and negotiation leverage shouldn’t be gatekept within inner circles and boardrooms.
~Jacob Warwick, the comp negotiator